If you ever look at my website, you can tell when I’m not updating. You have eyes. Old posts linger. Your feed reader’s section for my website never has updates. You don’t get e-mails with new posts. It’s because of my mental health – specifically my depression. When some of us (who shall remain nameless...Read More
January 2016: Sportsheets sent me a Sex & Mischief flogger and a collar. The collar is okay. The flogger is great but needs some swish-and-flick and a good levio-saaaaaa.Read More
I like to review toy kits because they have a lot to offer people who are new to the scene. Bondage kits carry a few different things, and that allows you to get the basic concept of their use down before you go and spend $80 on a hand-knotted leather flogger. Generally kits don’t bring...Read More
I don’t read a lot of erotica anymore. Don’t get me wrong, I like erotica okay. I can masturbate to the written word. But for the most part, erotica usually feels like it’s missing something for me. I can get on Literotica and read some short stories, but they always seem to lack body, depth,...Read More
You know how great I am? How much you love me? Now is the time to tell other people about that by voting for me in Kinkly’s Sex Superheroes contest! Just follow the link and click the big vote button! If you like my blog, please consider doing this. You can vote for any number...Read More
I don’t review a lot of porn. I think lots of bloggers agree that porn reviews are harder to write than some toy reviews. Normally I just don’t even know where to start… but things are different with Here Kitty Kitty. The first thing I noticed was that Kitty Stryker is my porn aesthetic; this...Read More
Lots of people have taken the time to start and contribute to the conversation about depression and sex. Crista and JoEllen are two big names in the realm of sex and depression. Crista founded #OrgasmQuest and received national attention for it, and JoEllen is writing a book called, “The Monster Under the Bed: Sex, Depression & The Conversations...Read More
(TW: ableist language, discussion of ableism) There comes a time in every company’s lifespan where they make an advertising mistake. For SheVibe, that was recently, when they ran a sale with “Crazy Edna” as the mascot. This drew the ire of Mary, who made a series of tweets regarding the incident. I will only quote…Read More
There is a very real possibility that my husband and I will be moving in with my parents soon. Not permanently, but probably for at least a year while we finish renovating our house so we can put it on the market, and while we look for a home down in their town. In lots...Read More
